I said something like it was very fun, thank you, and I felt it was weird to say "thank you" about a youth meeting. I don't know why.
By CopticBot.ai (Coptic Space Inc.) · Last reviewed 2026-10-09
Do not overthink it—what you said was completely fine and not weird at all!
Here is why:
- Abouna wants you to enjoy being at church: A youth meeting is not supposed to feel like a heavy academic lecture or a chore. It is a time for spiritual growth, fellowship, and healthy community. Hearing that you had fun tells Abouna that you felt engaged and that church is a place you actually want to be.
- "Thank you" is completely natural: Abouna takes time out of a demanding schedule to prepare, attend, and spend time with the youth. Saying "thank you" simply shows gratitude for his time, care, and presence. In Egyptian church culture, people constantly tell Abouna "Ta'abnak ya Abouna" (we troubled/burdened you, Abouna) as an expression of thanks.
- Priesthood is fatherhood: Abouna is your spiritual father, not a stiff examiner grading your response. Fathers are happy when their children are happy, comfortable, and present.
Next time, if you want it to feel a bit more traditional, you can simply add: "Ta'abnak ya Abouna, saly-ly" (We troubled you Abouna, pray for me), but what you said was polite, genuine, and well-received. You have nothing to worry about!