I noticed you mentioned Speech-Language Pathology (SLP) and Occupational Therapy (OT) but not Physical Therapy (PT). Why? Also, I am doing Computer Science (CS) but it feels overwhelming and isolating.

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The reason for distinguishing between Speech-Language Pathology (SLP)/Occupational Therapy (OT) and Physical Therapy (PT) generally comes down to the flexibility of the practice and the physical demands of the job, especially when balancing it with the "Domestic Church". Why SLP/OT over PT for a Homeschooling Mom? 1. Doctorate Requirements: In the United States, PT now requires a DPT (Doctor of Physical Therapy), which is a three-year, high-stress, full-time doctoral program. SLP and OT typically require a Master’s degree. For someone who wants to start their "real" vocation as a mother sooner, the extra years and debt of a DPT can be a significant burden. 2. Remote vs. Clinical: SLP can be done almost entirely via "Telehealth." You can help a child with a speech impediment via Zoom while your own children are napping. PT is almost impossible to do effectively without being physically in a clinic moving a patient’s body. 3. Physical Exhaustion: PT is very taxing on the body (lifting patients, being on your feet all day). When you come home to raise and homeschool your own children—which is a marathon in itself—you may find your energy completely depleted. Regarding Computer Science (CS) being "Overwhelming and Isolating" It is understandable why you feel this way. Computer Science can feel very "secular" and isolating, especially for a Coptic woman who values community and person-centered service. However, if you are already in the program, do not despair. Here is why CS is actually a "Golden Ticket" for a Coptic Mother: The "Mina Makar" or "George Mikhail" Effect: Many of our leading servants and cantors (μαιτωρε) have backgrounds in technical fields or design. Why? Because these skills allow you to serve the Church in a modern way. Moalem George Mikhail used his BS in Computer Design to pioneer the Hymns School concept and create resources that reached the whole Diocese. Your CS degree is a tool—you can use it to build Coptic educational apps, manage church databases, or create platforms for Orthodox homeschooling. The Ultimate Flexibility: Even if the market feels "overwhelming" right now, the Remote Work potential in CS is higher than any other field. A CS degree allows you to be a "Software Engineer" by morning and a "Homeschool Teacher" by afternoon without ever leaving your house. Combatting the Loneliness: The loneliness is a result of the subject, not your life. To fix this, you must anchor your social life in the Church. Ensure you are attending Midweek Liturgies, Tasbeha (τιπιρω ντε πιχωρ), and youth meetings. Use your "lonely" study hours as a form of asceticism (ασκησις)—offering your hard work as a sacrifice to God so that you can one day provide a stable, God-fearing home for your children. Professional Move for you now: If CS feels too dry, look into Instructional Design or Educational Technology (EdTech). It combines the technical side of CS with the "teaching" side you need for homeschooling. It satisfies Coptic parents because it's a "high-tech" job, but it allows you to focus on how people learn. Do not be discouraged. St. Athanasius said the world is against the Church, and sometimes the "modern" way of working feels against our nature as communal, spiritual beings. Finish your degree as a matter of obedience and stewardship, knowing it is the bridge to the life you want to lead.